Tuesday, September 6, 2011

...of Once Upon A Time.

What ever happened to geniune love? The kind of love that gave you butterflies in your stomach. What happened to the moonlight stroll on the beach, laying out under the stars just because, always and forever kind of love? The kind of love that just the sound of their voice made your toes curl. It used to be people got married as a teenager. They were all so young. And they lasted a lifetime. What happened to that? These days, people get divorced more than getting and staying married. Why? What's so different now that you can't work it out and keep it together? Don't you dare blame it on "different times" because it was even harder then. Just what happened to happy love? Irreconcilible differences is the big one these days. Yes, people disagree. Always. That's ANY kind of relationship. Good, bad, or whatever. To divorce for that, though. Really? I mean, I'd understand if it was for adultry. But that? Yes. Relationships are hard. I know that and I'm 17. But, I have a hard time believing that differences are irreconcilible. You loved them once. What happened? There was some reason you fell in love with them or you would not have married them. Just hold on to that. Think back to the day you were happiest with them. Look back at photos and videos. Especially from the wedding. Think of all the memories you have made along the way. If you believe in those memories, they'll bring you back together. Just remember why you fell in love with them. Shouldn't that be enough?

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